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Does Social Media Help Old People Feel Less Lonely?

Remember when people speculated that social media would produce a population of isolates, working alone in a room, disconnected from the rest of humanity? And if lonely older people took up social media, they would become even more lonely and depressed? Well, speculate no more—older adults, just like the rest of humanity, have climbed aboard the social media band wagon, and the results are overwhelmingly positive. In fact, older people, once they try Skype, Facebook or other electronic platforms, become enthusiasts, accounting for a substantial jump in use in just ten years.

We knew this was happening. People in our age group happily discuss their internet connections, and few among our acquaintances say they don’t participate. But if you had any doubts about how social media has drawn older people in its web, here is the latest research from PEW:

-There has been a nearly tenfold jump in the use of social media by older people in the past decade.

-In 2005, 2% of seniors used social media, compared with 35% today.

-Usage among those 65 and older has more than tripled since 2010, when only 11% used social media.

Anita Kamiel, reporting for the Huffington post, welcomes the use of social media among elders, saying:

“Many might think that social media is the exclusive domain of the younger generation. However, many older adults have enthusiastically adopted it to keep up with the times as well as their old acquaintances and younger family members. Grandparents are becoming proficient in alien things like Skype and Facebook and liking it. It has become a healthy emotional outlet and word of its benefits has spread like wildfire among the elderly. “

This is good news for all of us, and is supported by institutions like UC San Diego Center for Healthy Aging, which studies depression among older people, and reports the alarming statistic that loneliness in older adults varies from 20-40%, and usually hovers around 30%.

The Center admits that social media may be helpful in alleviating this. However, in an interview with Gary Robbins of the San Diego Union Tribune, Dilip Jeste, director of the Center, is cautious about the benefits of social media, stating:

“I have not found any randomized controlled trials of cellphone or social media use as interventions for self-perceived loneliness in older people, but there is some evidence (not conclusive, by any means) that social media users are more satisfied with their current social roles and endorse more social satisfaction than non-social media users.”

The concern about depression and loneliness is not confined to North America. In the UK, a massive study on loneliness has been underway for some years, with the English Longitudinal Study of Ageing concluding that being older is a strong predictor of loneliness, and that people aged over 80 are more than twice as likely to suffer severe loneliness when compared to younger age groups. Most alarming is their calculation that loneliness increases the likelihood of mortality by 26% in older people.

And in Australia, a recent Social Isolation and Loneliness Report, conducted by Galaxy Research says that Older Australians who use the internet daily are less likely to experience feelings of loneliness than those who peruse the web less often. Of all survey participants, 70 per cent said social media makes them feel less lonely.

It’s a well known fact that you can be surrounded by people, and yet feel lonely. Conversely, you can be alone, but when connected to meaningful activities on social media, feelings of isolation and loneliness diminish somewhat. Recently, this reality has caught the interest of researchers like Shiela Cotton, a sociologist at the University of Alabama-Birmingham, who has found that older adults who were active on the internet experienced a 30% decrease of depressive symptoms.

The Internet, she says, (and social networking, more specifically) has become a way for aging adults to connect to their loved ones and maintain their communities and relationships in ways more powerful than anything they ever imagined.

I’ll end with Kate Finn Ph.D., who, in her recent study Social Media Use by Older Adults includes an array of social media instruments in her research: e-mail, video chat, instant messaging, blogging, photo and video sharing, webcasts, and podcasts.  So if you still need convincing that social media is beneficial in alleviating the pain of isolation among older adults, her words may sway you:

“Over the past decade, social media has experienced rampant and ever-widening adoption. The group that has seen the greatest increase in adoption rates is that of older adults, defined here as 65+. By virtue of its relative immediacy and dynamism, social media can improve some people’s quality of life by relieving their isolation, and exposing them to new sources for social contact, information, and transactions.”

Let’s face it, some of us have been around since the telephone became an everyday wonder. Social media, with its promise of immediate connection to thousands of people, is to us, an over-the-top miracle!

22 thoughts on “Does Social Media Help Old People Feel Less Lonely?”

  1. You’ve presented very interesting info in this post! I too struggle with loneliness as an older person, and since I recently moved 150 miles away from my home of 13 years, I’ve been trying to meet people in hopes of making friends. It’s a long process. I look forward to my daily Facebook reading to see what my far-flung relatives are doing, and my friends who also live far away.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Moving always brings so many surprises, loss of friends and family being one of them! As I said in my post, it’s not very helpful offering advice, so I won’t do that! Social Media s a comfort, though, until you make other connections.

  2. I discovered years ago I never feel lonely when I write. It doesn’t even have to be writing to someone, it’s a way of connecting to myself and the world. That’s why I write a post every day and why I like blogging so much. Emails are important too, but I don’t like Facebook, Twitter, etc. Not enough depth for me, but to each his own. We all have to figure out what works for us.

    FYI — Do you rely on MailChimp for links to my new posts? Mostly it works, but this morning for some reason it didn’t. My test mailing to myself at 1 am worked fine, but the mailing to my subscribers, sent at exactly the same time, didn’t. How strange is that? !

    Here’s the link if you’re interested: http://cheerfulmonk.com/2017/07/09/obstacle-or-shred-toy/

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Me, too, Jean. Writing fills all the spaces, for me. I did receive your email for today, but it did not indicate whether or not MailChimp was involved. It seemed to arrive via your regular email system. Hope that helps!

  3. I keep seeing new tidbits to this effect, Diane. I think it has to be true. If you’re an old person feeling sort of lonesome, but you go online and find out that people have sent you emails, you’ve got some interactions on Facebook, and a YouTube video makes you laugh, how can that help but make you feel better? I think most of us at any age can vouch for the sense of friendship and community we get on the web. Thanks for an informative column. I’ll share it.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Thanks for your offer to share, Lynne. I felt the research spoke overwhelmingly in favor of online friendships, but of course, claims can be made that some of the studies did not use classic, approved methods. Universities are the usual sticklers.

  4. Hi Diane! Great research about how social media can counteract the effects of loneliness. Anything that helps connect people to each other can be a good thing so I can see why it would help. Plus, as more and more of us start using it, that will just continue to grow and be a benefit as we age. Thanks for sharing all the current studies on this. ~Kathy

  5. recently I decided I needed to under social media much more and to that end, I have 3 books on the similar subjects – one was particularly written for baby boomers who have/had/want businesses. I have learnt a heap more already and am looking forward to reading the rest of the books (from library service). I don’t think I’m going into business in the true sense of the word, but I knew that I needed to know the “language” as well…some of the social media is like 140 characters per post but also tells you can share an url and not fall faul of the rules…some are for certain other reasons. Mostly this research if for me to actually understand my “artist dedicated f/b page” which had been bamboozling me!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      When you first set out to understand social media, it can be baffling. It’s good to start with an overview, which you are doing. It might be best to concentrate on one platform at a time. People usually find Facebook the easiest, so maybe you should begin there. Once you have that down pat, you could progress to Twitter. Some people also like Instagram, since it is mostly pictures. I included Skype in my article, because it allows you to ‘talk’ to your family and friends, while seeing them on a video. Being interested, as you are, is the key. Once you become immersed in it, you will continue until you have it mastered!

      1. I’m already on f/b with a personal page (been there for years) but I also got myself a “artist page” and that is where I have become bamboozled – hence I’m studying that aspect… I have twitter and instagram and couple other apps so going to get them working better than they have been…most because of the sheer fact, I find difficulties being out in the real brick/mortar world due to my disabilities…

        1. Still the Lucky Few

          It sounds like you are ahead of many of us in understanding social media, Cathy. As you say, you just have to refine how you use it.

  6. Derrick John Knight

    A sound an positive post.
    It must also be significant that many of those who were younger when they began with social media have now become old enough to feature in the stats

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      And if they were younger, it was also easier to learn it. People who set out to understand social media when they are older (70+) have a challenge ahead of them, but it is surprising how many begin at that age. Getting help—someone to work alongside them and show them how, helps.

  7. Most of the people that I interact with on social media are much younger than I am. My older contacts, friends and relatives tend to use the telephone, particularly the landline as it makes listening a better proposition than cell phones. The older contacts also use the email more than say facebook.

    Having said that, there are some older contacts who use the facebook but not so much to keep in touch.

    I am not lonely. I enjoy my solitude and have recourse to company whenever the mood takes me. It helps that I have lived in a city for the past twenty seven years.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      You are fortunate to have lived in the same place for so many years, and developed long term relationships. I always get a sinking feeling when I hear of people who move when they are much older. The practice we have, of moving very old people into care homes, sometimes away from family, have serious repercussions. It almost guarantees loneliness.

      1. my sister is going to turn 92 in a month – and she has shied away from moving to a care home, because she doesn’t want to have to eat the kind of food they might supply – but in reality she needs more care, although various care agencies come to her home. Why she needs more care, has to do with the structure of her home – it’s just not user friendly… her adult children aren’t on great terms with one another (well the ones living here in NZ, the others overseas, try in vain to stop the nonsense)… she really can’t get out of her house, so rarely goes anywhere except some w/end day trips or health appts…

        I try to keep an arms’ length from it all.

        And I have had to work through my own options for me, I’m a lot younger than big sis though…and I believe although I don’t now own my home, so I’ll probably never be stuck in a non-user home! I also have made a bigger effort to go out and about, even when I don’t want to…

        oh and big sis wants nothing to do with this technology – which I’m sure would’ve made her life much less lonely if she had…she has missed the boat IMHO!

        1. Still the Lucky Few

          I think it would be difficult, but not impossible for her to learn, given the right support and instruction. Thanks, Cathy for sharing this.

  8. Again, Diane, this is so interesting, timely and meaningful for those of us who are older. I am an introvert and a writer, so need a certain amount of private time, but I also relish my relationships with others and find so easy to maintain them with social media. Also, by blogging I’ve met many other bloggers who have become friends. It’s really quite delightful.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Social Media is the best of all worlds for introverts (I am one also!), since we can choose our time to relate with other people, leaving our precious (lol) alone time for periods when we need to be replenished. Of all Social Media platforms, blogging is the most satisfying for me!

  9. The older I become the fewer relatives and friends I have. They fit the pattern others are experiencing — they move away, die or both. I recently noted the contrast in my communication with my mother years ago and my children with me. We have much more frequent contact, in real time, in a variety of means — phone, email, instant messages, texts, FaceTime/Skype. I have other social media accounts but don’t care for them or use them. My contact with my mother was via letters, occasional phone calls across the miles ’til she moved close by in her later years once we settled in one location. I’ve appreciated blogging and making the acquaintance of people around the world and look forward to continuing to “meet” new people in the years ahead.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I remember the longing my mother felt, when she lived her many years of being a young mother, on a prairie farm. Her only social outlets were an occasional visit with other farm wives, or the letters from readers that she read in the Winnipeg Free Press. She loved that paper, and I’m sure it saved her from desperation many times! We are so fortunate to be able to make many more connections today!

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