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6 Reasons to Love Genealogy—and Learn How You Became You

Genealogy has all of the elements of a first class mystery novel, a barn burner of a historical film.  Be prepared for suspense, intrigue, and emotional ups and downs as you delve into your family’s past. There is always excitement and surprise in genealogy,  and it’s available to anyone with curiosity and a few hours a week to spare.

1. Experience the gripping drama of the past

Like a great novel or spy thriller, mystery is at the heart of genealogy. Gradually, as you begin to piece together the people and events that you have heard about for years, your story begins to reveal itself and you become hooked. Your imagination is the engine, and the clues and signposts are the fuel. That’s how it is with genealogy, and that’s what awaits you as you probe into the epic story of your family’s past.

It happened with me a few weeks ago. One morning my daughter called and casually mentioned she had signed up with Ancestry.ca. That’s nice, I said, and went on to discuss other things. A few days later, she sent me a workup of the first few entries, and before the week was out, I was thinking about it day and night. We began to speculate. Who were my great grandparents, and what were they like? Whatever happened to that uncle that disappeared? Who was in that old picture on my mother’s bureau all those years?

Although I’m certain there will be disappointments and dead ends ahead, I’m also sure of many rewards and positive outcomes. Here are only a few:

2. See ancestors as living, breathing people

I’m only at the beginning, but I’m already developing an affinity for the ancestors we’ve discovered. I can’t help but identify with the lives they had, the events that consumed them, the challenges they faced, and what eventually became of them.

I’m beginning to see them as real living people, who emigrated here to change their circumstances, who had courage and incredible resilience as they accepted a new land. As we track their lives through documents and family stories, we are gaining a genuine understanding of them.

3. Understand family characteristics and how they transpired

As we scrutinize old family pictures, we begin to see some of the physical traits that appear in the living relatives we know. Other clues come up, as we study what we know about their lives and understand the things they chose to do, the decisions they made. “This family member lives out Uncle J’s sense of adventure”, we observe, “That family member is as devoted and responsible as Aunt S”. We become fascinated by the miracle of genetics and how we have been formed.

4. Find people who are remarkably like you

My daughter has already been in touch with living family members who have  emerged, as she delves into the information she has found. We are amazed at how receptive they are, how excited they are to find out more about their family.

We are setting up phone calls, and possibly Skpe sessions to connect with more of them. It is our hope that some family members will have old documents, old pictures, and know of stories handed down through the generations. These are the hidden artifacts of genealogy, and we hope to uncover them.

5. Track the history of pioneers as we breathe new life into them

With the Internet at our disposal, I realize that today’s tools are a boon to researchers.What an opportunity! Now I can find out at least a little about where my family lived in the old country, in my case, Romania. What village they came from, why they decided to take the extreme measure of packing up and leaving to travel thousands of miles across the Atlantic.

Drama, romance and an adventurous spirit are part of it—hospitalization at sea, love at first sight in a new city, death and broken family ties during the great 1918 Spanish flu pandemic, a poignant trek across thousands of miles of prairie. All of these things happened in my family within the context of sweeping world-changing events.

6. Create a memorial to family members of your past

My daughter and I are still in the process of early discovery. Anchoring each event with documentation is painstaking, and takes time. But this is the nitty-gritty of ancestry research, the steps we need to take in order to prove, rather than speculate. We know we need use discipline and persistence to be as accurate as possible. After all, only the truth will honor those who came before us. And this is what we hope to reveal when we finally share our results with all family members.

Will Moneymaker, founder of Ancestral Findings, pins it down, saying:

“Remember, these were living people once, real people who actually walked the earth. They deserve to be remembered by their descendants, just as you would want to be remembered. In a very real way, you are doing a service to them by pulling them out of the obscurity of time and into the present to re-introduce them to the many descendants they produced.”

18 thoughts on “6 Reasons to Love Genealogy—and Learn How You Became You”

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I’m enjoying it so far, Bernadette. I think some of the ‘shine’ comes off as you go along, but it’s certainly interesting in the beginning. where I am now!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      So right, CM. I’m only in the first two weeks, and I have hit wall already! Still connecting with family members, so I’m hopeful they can help!

  1. Dead ends and brick walls are part and parcel of family history, but the joy of it is how often those brick walls crumble thanks to that extra bit of research, or an unexpected message from a family member you didn’t know existed. That’s how what starts as a hobby can so easily lead to an addiction! Good luck with it all, and how lovely your daughter is also working alongside you.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Actually, she is the driver, since she started it all! And yes, it is wonderful! Thanks, Patsy.

  2. I am happy for you that you have found this interesting pursuit.

    In our system, at least till my generation, we have the oral tradition of teaching the children as much as possible about our ancestors. For instance, my son knows quite a bit about his grand parents and enough about his great grand parents to keep him rooted in his traditions and family lore. Since we also have the system of attending family weddings and other functions, being in touch with one’s extended relatives also helps though with passing time and distances, this is gradually decreasing.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      It seems so simple, Rummuser, when you explain it that way! But those methods reflect centuries of tradition and a focused approach. It seems that in our culture, paying homage to our ancestors is something that comes as an afterthought. The truth is, that by leaving it so late, and waiting until the desire strikes us, we have lost the opportunity to learn what our parents and grandparents knew about their past. My grandparents were pioneers, arriving from Romania to a country where they didn’t even know the language. Add to that the measures my own parents took to find a place where they could finally settle down and grow roots. So many stories have been lost in all of those transitions. But my family team is forging on, and we are happy that we finally have made a start!

  3. I’m delighted to see how thrilled you are with the beginning of your genealogy journey. It’s great that your daughter can work on it with you. I’ve been working on my family tree since 1984, and there are still mysteries to solve. Just a few months ago, my cousin hired a professional genealogist in England and she found a document we have been hoping to unearth for 30 years! Have fun!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      You would thing one document wouldn’t make much difference—but it can make an impressive impact! That’s what I’m hoping for…that one connection that will bring forward a document to solve at least one mystery!

  4. Hi Diane! It is fun isn’t it? Thom and I did it last summer and it was so interesting to trace our “roots” and see where our DNA came from. I also worked a bit on the family tree and although I didn’t sign up for the service to continue past 30 days, I did manage to get a bit of a tree going…and discovered things about my ancestors that I didn’t know. With my parents gone and now my older sister, it seems more important to remember those who came before me. Maybe I’ll take another look??? ~Kathy

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Yes, Kathy, by all means take another look! You have an investigative mind, so give it a chance to uncover a mystery or two! Sorry, I just cant help myself, I’m just so into this!

  5. I have traced my father’s family back to 1635 and have found records of some possible ancestors going back as far as Norman settlers in the 11th and 12th centuries. Most of them were ‘yeoman farmers’ in the county of Sussex. I have also discovered a few thieves, drunkards and various rogues including a deserter from the militia and a murder victim. One very thin branch of my ‘family tree’ connects me to the son of a mistress of King Henry VIII, so who knows, a little ‘blue blood’ may flow through these old veins.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      A 1635 timeline is very impressive! I’d be interested to know what documents you found to confirm your history. We are using Ancestry.com, and haven’t had a great deal of success in finding some critical information. Our background involves immigration from the ‘old country’ of Romania, so that may be the reason. So far, we have only reached the 1980s. But we are addicted—nothing will stop us now!

      1. I’ve used Ancestry.com for more recent times Diane, as well as some on-line church, county etc. records. UK census records are pretty good. Obviously the 17th and 18th centuries are a different matter…. but ! … I got lucky when someone who had already researched my family in great detail got in touch and handed over a thick file containing copies of early documents.
        It helped that my family farmed in the same part of Sussex for around 200 years. They were fairly prosperous until the industrial and farming revolutions of the 19th century transformed them into members of the poorest labouring class.

        1. Still the Lucky Few

          What a gift! Wish something like that would turn up for us. Until then, we are wandering around, lost in the mists of time! Thank you, John!

  6. Can appreciate the enthusiasm you’re feeling. I have thoroughly enjoyed learning about my ancestors from earlier centuries that a blogger here researched and prepared for me — a marvelous narrative book, including copies of some photos and documents new to me. I have so few living relatives any more this book with select section copies I gifted my children and a few other relatives.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I’m sure your children appreciate the gift! Great that all the work is done for them.

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