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Reflecting on My Summer Break

When you were going to school, did your teacher ever ask you, on the first day of school in September, to write about what you did last summer? And did you moan and groan about it since, like all kids, what was done was done, and all you wanted was to get on with things?

Well, that’s how I feel, now that my ‘summer vacation’ is over, and I should be getting back to my ‘real life’! I have been blogging for almost five years, and every Sunday morning, I’d post a story or an anecdote about my life, and then wait for your responses throughout the week. It was wonderful to hear from you. You became part of my life. But I took the summer off, and one month became two, and then, before I realized it, twelve weeks had gone by. I didn’t forget you though, and you didn’t forget me—I checked my blog regularly throughout the summer, and discovered that many of you were still dropping by to read my previous entries. Thank you for that.

If you are wondering, at this point, why I attached the picture of the hotel, with its amazing reflection in the water, well, the reflection is actually the story, since I did a lot of reflecting while I was away! Between major celebrations, Bob’s big birthday bash, my birthday celebration and various family activities, I walked the Songhees walkway, and reflected on my life, the things that have happened, and the things that most likely were in store for me.

It was all a revelation, since I have rarely taken the time to do this! I discovered that my family, Bob, his children, my own two grown children, my grandson, my sisters and brother, and my nieces and nephews—all rated highest in my life. Of course, as I grow older, I need them more than they need me—and that, I accept, is how it should be.

Other personal relationships are important too. I have friends who go back many years, and correspondence with them goes back and forth, much to my delight. I include you in this category, my online blogging and social media friends. It took a few weeks off to realize how much I value your readership and comments—and how much I miss you when I am not participating.

Then, because nothing is possible without it, my health, exercise, supplements, taking my blood pressure, and so on, comes next. Although I am in very good health, this part of my day seems to take longer than ever.

Very close to my heart right now, and something that gets me up in the morning, is writing. I am working (sporadically) on a novel, various articles, and this blog. Sometimes I am awash with regret that it took me so many decades to realize this, but now that I am here, writing every day, I am very grateful that I have the time, and the skills to do this, and I want it to last far into the future.

I do want to add, since it will become evident to you soon, that I am making some changes to this blog. Since I acquired an iphone this summer, I could see that my blog is hard to read on the phone, so I will be making some adjustments to the format. I also want to change the times my articles appear in your inbox. I won’t be posting every Sunday, as before, but will try for two or three postings a month—that works best for me, and I hope it will work out for you as well.

Once again, thank you for following. I look forward to more posting—but not more reflecting, I’m done with that for now!

Note: The picture of the Laurel Point Hotel, across the harbor from my home, was taken by me, with my new phone, one foggy morning last week

39 thoughts on “Reflecting on My Summer Break”

  1. Well good for you! Making decisions, making changes, adapting to the now are things all of us need to do at different stages of life. I will look forward to reading your blog whenever it appears in my box until then do take care!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Thanks, Linda! Sure does seem as if I’ve been away for a long time! But it’s amazing how easy it is to get back into the swing of things. Nice to have your support!

  2. Taking time to reflect is always important and useful. As you said, your priorities become clear and that makes it easier to decide how to spend each day that we are granted. Welcome back!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Great analogy, CM! I hope to implement the changes gradually, give them lots of thought, and be strategic about it. I’m into being more efficient also—time seems to blow by so much faster these days! Thanks for your words!

  3. Diane, reflections, memories, reevaluation, hopes…they people my mind more and more. They sometimes buffer the sounds of Potomac Fever that can grab me by the neck.
    I’m so glad you are back. I appreciate your take on the present and not just reflections on the past.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Thanks, Alexandra. Not familiar with Potomac Fever, but will look it up! So happy to hear from you too! Have a great week…

  4. Hi Diane! Welcome back! You were missed but I think it is extremely healthy for us all to pause and “reflect” now and then. And yes, we’re here when you return. Looking forward to seeing how your life unfolds as the year continues. ~Kathy

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I have been reading your blogs, but have made only a few comments…I guess I was serious about time off! Thanks for your thoughts, always so philosophical!

  5. Welcome back, Diane. It’s good to know that you enjoyed everything you packed into your time away, and that you could reflect on what is important to you – and to all of us. I have no set timetable for posting, and I hope that now works for you too: it certainly takes away some pressure!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I have kept up with your blog as well, which I always enjoy. Sorry, I seem to have taken a holiday from commenting as well! Thanks!

  6. for you, a great idea…and yes “reflection” is a fine skill, not just once a year though…I find myself since I had to use that skill in an education setting a decade back, very useful. However, the difference for me/you is that I have no family to consider…Welcome Back…

  7. I had forgotten you would be on break for the summer! on one of Monk’s last posts I left you a message because you had commented and I had been worried about you! LOL. good grief.
    I always read but don’t comment every time. I understand about pacing oneself for sure!
    the novel sounds fascinating! and… that VIEW of the hotel you have. oh MY! XO

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Lovely to read your comment, Donna! Although I won’t be returning to my old schedule entirely—hope to do about 2 or 3 a month. Thanks for this!

  8. What a pleasure to read your blog again!
    Kudos for abandoning a weekly schedule! Sometimes writing posts takes more time than is available in a given week especially with other writing projects. Retirement is no time to be harnessed to a rigid schedule!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Great advice, Jeanette! I must admit, the schedule was dragging at me…I don’t know how some people manage to blog several times a week, even daily! Thanks for your input!

  9. I am delighted to see you blogging again. I like the theme of this post on reflection giving way to posting! It should be interesting to see quite how you will manage that!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Thanks so much, Brenda! I look forward to seeing you on Friday, at the Friday night event honoring Ted and Helen! Well, that’s assuming you are going!

  10. “I have friends who go back many years, and correspondence with them goes back and forth, much to my delight.”

    I have found this the hardest part–keeping up with old friends that our various paths have scattered to the four corners of the earth (well, the U.S. really). We are all so busy living our lives–and that’s a good thing–that we too rarely get time to connect. I always want to do better at this. Any strategies you’d like to share.

    I’m glad you got time to reflect–so vital and too often overlooked. I applaud your decision to blog a little less. I started with a post every 2 weeks, then went to 3 weeks and now post the 1st of every month. I had always admired the posts of author Michael Gruber–these beautiful, meaningful essays–and that was my goal, but every 2 weeks was killing time for other writing.

    You strike me as someone who trusts her own intuition, and that is invaluable.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      In all honesty, alhenry, I don’t do such a great job of corresponding regularly—it’s sporadic, at best. But I think the main thing is to keep it going…allowing ourselves to connect when we have time, and pick it up again after pauses, however long. What troubles me now, is finding time to write—everything seems to conspire to take me away from it. So I am usually at my computer by 5:30 am, almost every day, and at least do a page or two. Sometimes, when I am stuck, as I seem to be lately, I get up as usual, and just sit here, with my coffee, and reflect. It sounds as if you are writing something major—a book perhaps?

  11. Hi Diane, Thank you for sharing “taking the Summer off.” Your photo is stunning, especially how you captured the reflection. Great segue on your story! I appreciate how your reinforce the people in your life as priorities. Great post and welcome back!

  12. Now that I’ve read this post, I have an idea why your recent comment on my blog went to the spam bin. Maybe it’s because you switched to an iPhone? Did you have to sign in again? Another follower (Lori) has had trouble leaving comments on my posts and wondered if it was WordPress, or her own gadgets, or my posts that were blocking her comments. So I’d love to hear from you if you ever have trouble leaving a comment on my blog, please.
    As for your break in blogging, I understand that we sometimes need a breather from it, but, like you, I miss the network of friends if I’m gone too long.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Thanks, Anneli. I think I may have entered an email address I seldom use, possibly that may explain the ‘span bin’ incident! No, I didn’t comment from my iphone, so that wouldn’t explain it. I’ll comment again on your next post, and take it from there. Thanks for your comment! I always enjoy your posts, BTW!

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