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Retirement – The Best Is Yet To Come!

RetirementIt seems that there is a rush on retirement these days. I guess that makes sense—the baby boomers are getting older, and many of them are turning 65, some even 70, if they were born in 1946.

When I retired there was little fanfare about it, we decided to retire, we went to the banquet, we got our watch (in my case, an engraved tray) we went home and figured out what to do from there. Nobody speculated about our numbers or least of all, our well being.

We were part of a generation that enjoyed the last of the benefits of a long term secure job, and the last of the pensions that were awarded devoted servants of the system. We owned our own homes, we saved for a rainy day, we went along with the corporate decisions whether we agreed with them or not, and we didn’t complain (that’s why we were called the ‘The Silent Generation’).We worked as long as we felt we were productive, and when the age of 65 approached, we took the hint and moved on.

So after all the dinners and the hugs and handshakes, if we woke up the next morning without a clue about what to do, we just made it up as we went along.

But now, years later, as we look at the baby boomer generation, having seminars, doing research, responding to quizzes, coming up with optimum times of departure, optimum money in the bank, we might feel that we have missed out. Just speaking for myself, I could have been better prepared. Maybe I wouldn’t have wasted six months (and $250) looking into an online education scheme. Maybe I wouldn’t have dithered for an entire winter making lists about finding my life purpose.

All regrets aside, I did two things that worked—I took a course in medicinal herbal plants, which gave me years of pleasure growing herbs, and I bought a dilapidated old house which I renovated for three years. Good projects, which gave me pleasure, and kept me occupied.

I watched people who retired with me do a variety of things, from travelling the world for months to buying a sailboat. Some of what they chose made them happy. Some didn’t, so they moved on to try other things.

Just about every older blogger out there has written a word or two about retirement. No wonder. It’s a topic that we think about long before we get there, and several years after.

Rin Porter has addressed it in depth in her blog, Things Could Be Worse. In March, she wrote 45 Tips to Help Retired Women Triumph Over Income Inequality. She suggests everything from changing your habits and your thoughts about money to planning time each day to be creative.

Kathy Merlino is the author of Kathysretirementblog.com. She says she started her blog to respond to the dearth of information about the transition from career to retirement, to help people sort out how they can remain mentally alert, physically active and emotionally satisfied.

There are many topics that concern writers and bloggers about retirement. Many prefer to write about anything but the financial aspects, but Jim Yih of RetireHappy.ca digs right in. Since he is Canadian, his financial advice is for Canadians, but his common sense ideas apply to all older people.

From Britain, Peter Galvin lends his humorous outlook to retirement in his blog, The Summerhouse Years. He has just recently retired, so it’s always on his mind. He writes about being perplexed and bewildered about all of the things he can get up to now that he doesn’t have to punch the clock, and he does it in the funniest way.

If you want some serious advice about financial planning, go to the US News, and read ‘The Oldest Baby Boomers Turn 70″ by Emily Brandon. It’s a comprehensive report.

If you are wondering why retirement is capturing so much attention, The U.S. Census Bureau calculates that by 2020, 55.9 million people in the U.S. will be age 65 or older, and by 2030, that number will reach 72.7 million. In all developed countries, the statistics are proportionately the same.

It makes you stop and think, imagining this mass of people all applying for their social security (old age pension in Canada), leaving their offices, and choosing how to spend their leisure all at the same time. It doesn’t happen like that, though. They are individuals, doing things according to their own timelines.

I guess you know you have really arrived when you cease to let it occupy your mind. I’ve been retired so long it’s a way of life. I’ve developed a strategy to deal with the time, and if there are any failings in my retirement scheme, I’ve come to terms with them.

There comes a point when you don’t want to make many changes—like travel the world, or get a supplementary job, or take up a challenging new sport. A wise person once said, that when we retire, we pretty much carry on doing what we always did, in varying forms and degrees. That’s why, it’s important to lead a balanced life all along.

I enjoy waking up and not having to go to work. So I do it three or four times a day. ~Gene Perret
There’s never enough time to do all the nothing you want. ~Bill Watterson, Calvin and Hobbes

 

 

28 thoughts on “Retirement – The Best Is Yet To Come!”

  1. If and when I retire, I would probably stay in bed all day. I would read, watch TV, yak on the phone, and snack. You have to be disciplined. I am not. It mystifies me what people do with their time. Most grandparents insert themselves into their children’s lives. If you don’t want to do that, back to bed.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I don’t believe it for a minute! If any one’s going to be out and about, doing a million things, it would be you! Glad that you won’t be doing the helicopter grandparent thing—nobody welcomes that!

  2. Interesting piece, and some new blogs for me to look at! I think retirement is a major life change, but the way we approach it will vary, as does our approach to life in general. That’s what makes life – and blogs – so interesting: there’s an infinite variety of ways to do it!

    PS What is probably a very belated Thank You for including me in your list of ‘Blogs I Read’ – I must be slowing down with age as I hadn’t noticed before 🙂

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      You, slow down? No, don’t think so! I marvel at the variety of subjects and the methods used in blogging. Glad to be part of it!

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I do have a different perspective—having retired some time ago. I knew it would be a big deal when Boomers started to retire. So no news there! Thanks, Bernadette!

  3. Yes, retirement is spreading like wildfire among our age group (baby boomers) isn’t it? And luckily we are learning before hand that it requires a plan. Mine included writing, blogging, and thanks to my baby boomer of a house, lots of do-it-yourself repairs and of course, gardening. Now that it is here, I am rarely graced with free time. However you and I, as well as the bloggers you cite, are the fortunate ones. There are countless others, not having had a pension or the earnings that allowed them to invest for the future, forced to live in poverty while trying to subsist on social security alone.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Yes, that’s the hard part. I’ll be writing about that—a tough story, but one that has to recognized. It’s especially difficult for older people who are single, with no family support.

  4. Great post. I retired from my corporate job 18 years ago to switch gears and write books for children. Best decision I ever made. I consider it my “arrivement” not my retirement.

      1. Thanks Diane. I tried to check out your posts on Sixty&Me from the list of features contributors, but the link to your posts wasn’t working. You might want to check it out. Could have been a fluke but others were okay.

        1. Still the Lucky Few

          Pat. I’ll look into that right away. I’ve done four post for Sixty&Me. Sometimes I can’t find them either. I do a search for ‘wisdom’, ‘renew yourself’, ‘access your creativity’ and ‘freedom and commitment’, and that usually gets me there. Also, I try the link off of my page—that works too. But the link from contributors needs to be fixed, so thanks!

          1. The link on your blog page goes to the main Sixty&Me home page. Your link should go directly to your own contributor page on SixtyandMe with just your articles listed there. I’m sure Elena can help you fix that too.

  5. I’m an older blogger and haven’t written about retirement, except for my comments that I love it! I had no problem with the transition. I’ve always been a self-starter and had a new project lined up as I left.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Self starters fare well, when it comes to retirement. I can tell that you love retirement from your blog!

  6. I’m going to flip your coin… I’m officially retired with gov’t super BUT

    I don’t own a home anymore, I haven’t been in the regular workforce since the 1980s, & I have survived on a variety of gov’t benefits, with much less money that I get with national super…oh forgot, significant/none.

    I have sold the odd art/textile object but not for the kind of sums that would keep my “icing on the cake” out weighing the regular cake without the icing.

    My biggest debt is a student loan, when I attempted about a decade ago to be “employed” but when I was done – it was deemed that my wonky ill health put paid to doing that. The loan doesn’t incur interest, I have paid some back and later when I’m ore settled I may start automatic payment…I don’t have to, as I’m not in the workforce.

    I’m not complaining, somehow I have limped through, I have a basic satisfactory life & mostly I’m pretty happy.

    When chronic health issues arise, I know I can back off and rest, take care of me – as my commitments are only loosely defined & take a holiday if I wish that…

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Cathy, there is another side to the coin when it comes to the financial aspects of retirement. I’ll be writing about it next week. Thanks for this prompt!

  7. Ah, retirement, no more smelly bus, no more cleaning up any ones mess, I will have a Donkey Cart in Ireland, and write that Hysterical Novel…thanks Diane.

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      Well, I dunno, there are still plenty of messes to clean up, but yes, it is better, alright!

  8. What a useful overview of the retirement challenges for baby boomers — and what great comments too. Together they give a glimpse of the big picture, which is crammed with people taking every conceivable path. When retirement is a quarter to a third of life, “retirees” = “people”, I think.

  9. Diane,
    Thanks for mentioning my “45 tips” post in your newest article. I appreciate it! Your article offered a nice assortment of retirement bloggers including some that I hadn’t known about. I look forward to seeing what they are writing.

    I also enjoyed your summary of your retirement experiences and how many of us typically enter retirement. Got a good laugh over your “gold watch” – a tray! My gold watch was a winter ski jacket. Who knew?

    Rin

    1. Still the Lucky Few

      I’m glad you found the article and read it, Rin. I tried to notify everyone I linked, but couldn’t find you on Facebook (I think we have been here before!) and then tried by email, but to no avail! Anyway, I’m happy you approved of being mentioned!

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